Gloria Gery's
Romania Journal

APRIL 2005

April 25, '05


 

April 25, 2005

Saturday Night in Beautiful Downtown Tecuci, Romania

What is it they say about Saturday night? Well... it's not lonely here at the Tecuci internet cafe that I am sharing with 20 young boys playing video games and a manager who is smoking up a storm. I don't get much internet access as you can tell by the limited communication. There is a wireless receiver on top of town hall here and it always seems to be down! So I write tonight.

This is the end of the first two of three weeks for me. Bob left last night for Bucharest and took a flight through Frankfurt at 2 p.m. today. He arrives home after two weeks of incredible work at the clinic: putting up shelving for the heaters, fighting a drill without adequate bits, putting micro screening on 12 windows with a staple gun that he bought here which you would use for stapling two or three papers together, etc. He had to buy the bits and stapler and the latter broke with two windows to go. To buy staples you have to go to a different store than the one that sells the staple gun. Nothing is easy.. In any event, the babies were absolutely covered in mosquito bites at the end of the first week. The clinic is in the middle of a field and they were vicious. They are now "clear" of bites thanks to Bob. Of course he was standing on the home made ladder which you wouldn't get on in your pantry. He was adored by the staff and was frustrated that he had to leave. There are months of work... no, truly years of work to do. I miss him already.

We started with a team of ten. Some left after two weeks (including Bob) so there are two a single man and I left on the team. Some folks toured to northern Romania and the Black Sea over the weekend. I stayed here and am working at the clinic by myself. It is a great assist to have all the people here. It was hard being alone last December. Unfortunately I did something to my left shoulder (partially torn rotator cuff according to the physical therapist on our team), so the lifting must be done by the staff.

There are four new babies here since December. One is 6 weeks old and her mother is an 18 year old gypsy woman with another child. She just left her at the hospital and moved to Italy. Michaela is her name and they have her little scrunched up face peeking through a red hat. It's hilarious.

Ramona and Andrea are also in the tiny baby room. Andrea's mother ran away and her father brought her in because he couldn't feed or care for her. According to the staff she was a mess... and now is cherubic. Bob held her for an hour yesterday. He was great with the kids! I have a photo of him with one baby in his left arm and a drill in the other. Another child is posed with a level! very funny.

While the children certainly don't remember me from December, they connect very quickly. I love each one. Today I brought in yogurt and half gobbled it up; half screwed up their faces at the strawberry flavor. I then added some sugar and it was another story! Most of the children don't have a clue as to what to do with solid food. One of the women with the 1 to 2 year olds brought cheerios: the kids hold them in their cheeks since they don't know how to handle solid food. I find that distressing -- as I do so many things. Today, again, I realized that the kids just don't get out of the cribs without volunteers here. I got about half out and tomorrow will work with the others til the team returns on Monday. Bob and Dennis Larson, another U.S. volunteer, fixed all the swings and we get some of the kids out each day. They hate sitting in the grass since it's very unfamiliar. Every tiny thing we take for granted is amazing. They also squint like crazy because of the bright sun. I am going to suggest that volunteers who are coming bring sun glasses.

The staff thinks the microwave is great but hasn't a clue what to do with it. A lesson on Monday when Ramona, our Global Volunteers leader is here to translate. As with all of us, old habits die hard. But once our lives are made easier, we adopt new things.

The food is much better at this hotel but there is a disco on Friday and Saturday night. It starts at 9:15 p.m. and ends at 3 a.m. Last night I drank two cups of tea and took a sleeping pill to make it through the noise. Of course I have been known to sleep at basketball games, but others are not as rested!

The weather is beautiful and all is in bloom. My two hours are up here at the internet café, so I will write more again later. Thanks for all your notes and your warm thoughts.

Love, Glo (and Bob in absentia)

 

April 25, '05